When I streamed my first funeral, I didn’t think much about numbers. What mattered was the family in front of me and the people watching from far away who couldn’t be there. Over 485+ services later, that hasn’t changed. But looking back, I’ve learned a great deal about what families need, what funeral directors value and what makes a live stream work on the most difficult of days.
Every tradition deserves respect, so I always ask families and funeral directors about customs I should be aware of, from where it’s appropriate to stand to which moments shouldn’t be filmed. Getting it right is far more important than getting it quickly.
Families watching from around the world
Some of the most meaningful messages I receive come from the people watching. Family members have joined from New Zealand, the Caribbean, Ghana, Ireland and the Channel Islands, among many other places, and I’ve streamed to relatives in all sorts of time zones.
Families have kindly shared what it meant to them:
“My family back in New Zealand thought it was excellent; they felt as though they were right there with us.” - David, April 2026
“Our friends in Guernsey used the order of service to sing all the hymns with the congregation!” - Nicky, January 2026
“...people have said how they felt more included in the service even though distant.” - Sheila, October 2026
Comments like these remind me why I do this. Distance, illness, work, caring responsibilities or age shouldn’t stop someone from saying goodbye. What 485+ services have taught me
Experience teaches you things that no manual can. These are the lessons I come back to most often.
1. Preparation takes the pressure off.
Most of the work happens before the service. Speaking to the family and funeral director, checking the venue, understanding the order of service and planning for signal, sound and weather mean the day itself runs smoothly. I’ve written about this in more detail in my articles on venues with no Wi-Fi and streaming outdoors.
2. Discretion matters more than anything.
A funeral is not an event to be “produced”. I keep equipment small and tidy, I’m in place before guests arrive and I try to be barely noticed. Funeral directors tell me this is what they value most, and one recently said, “everything was fantastic.”
3. Sound is as important as the picture.
People watching from far away want to hear every word of a eulogy, reading or hymn. Clear audio always comes first.
4. Every family is different.
Some want a quiet, private stream for a handful of relatives. Others want a recording to keep for years to come. Some aren’t sure what they need. My job is to listen first and explain the options clearly, without pressure.
5. Being honest builds trust.
If a venue has no signal, or something can’t be done, I say so early, so the family and funeral director can plan together. Reliability isn’t about promising everything; it’s about knowing what’s possible.
Working with funeral directors
Funeral directors are at the centre of what I do, and many have invited me back time and again. I’ve worked with independent firms and larger organisations across the Midlands and beyond, including Co-op funeral services.
Their kind words mean a lot:
“We have enjoyed working with you and will continue to recommend you to our families highly.”
Keith, Thomas Furber & Co., Birmingham, October 2025
“Would you be available to do your usual wonderful service on...”
Ben, Mason & Stokes, Cheltenham, March 2025
I’m always glad to help funeral directors who’d like to offer streaming to their families. I fit in with your team, follow your lead and keep everything running smoothly in the background.
What stays the same every time
The number 485 is just a number. What matters is that every one of those services was someone’s mother, father, husband, wife, son, daughter, brother, sister or friend, and each deserved to be treated with care. My aim hasn’t changed since the first one:
To let family and friends, wherever they are in the world, share in the final goodbye and honour their loved one’s memory together.
Arranging a live stream
Prices start from £315 for one venue plus travel, and I’m available across the UK. If you’d like to check I’m free on your date, or just talk through the options, I’m always happy to help, with no obligation.
Call or text me on 079 7467 4815, or email Peter@funeral.video